Showing posts with label anniversaries. Show all posts
Showing posts with label anniversaries. Show all posts

12.18.2013

The Best Question Anyone's Ever Asked Me





Falling snow muffled the sounds of the city and painted our cheeks and noses red with cold.
We were rocking in the swing on the front porch.
The same swing where we shared many late nights together before this one.
The same swing our paper boy would frequently find us in, as the light of morning crept up on us, after we spent the entire night talking about our dreams for the future.
The same swing where he started handing us a free copy of that newspaper just because he got so used to seeing the two of us there. 
And so it also became the same swing where we would sit reading the morning news. 
It was the same swing where we had our first fight.
And the same swing where we later said our first I love you's
It was there, on that swing, sitting side by side, that he asked if we could carve out a life together. 
And in front of that same swing, after I said of course!, and yes!, he knelt and put the ring on my finger.






3.08.2013

Lucky Number Seven



Tomorrow marks seven years since becoming his wife. 
Seven of my very favorite years. 
Somehow it simultaneously feels like this just barely happened but also like we've been married forever. 
A rather delightful and complicated paradox.

We have a fun weekend away planned that we've both been giddy about for weeks.
Following, of course, in the tradition of years past. (you can read about it here.)
Also, posts from years 65, 4, and 3.






3.30.2012

Where we Stayed in New Mexico

It's not very often that you stay at a place that completely changes your perspective on everything and how you view your entire life and all your future goals.
This place did that.
Now all I want to do in life is to start a lavender farm, raise goats and peacocks, and live entirely off the land.
Maybe rent a room or two out on the side.
Is that too much to ask?



The large wooden doors you enter upon arrival.
They lead you through this gorgeous courtyard and into the front office for check in.
All this is part of the original structure and is apparently one of the oldest standing buildings in Albuquerque. 





Our back porch with some fresh rosemary of course.
We watched them pick it fresh to serve on our breakfast.
I felt as though somebody had unknowingly tapped into my brain (or my interest account) and recreated just exactly the sort of room I want to live in forever. 
Everything was delightful.
The wood burning fireplace. The petite fire tools. The extra deep bathtub. The kitchenette. The waffle robes.
I loved it all. 
So we spent the first hour or so just basking in the goodness of the place, walking around, exploring, and exclaiming just how wonderful every little detail was, and the second hour trying to capture it all on film.
It didn't work.
These pictures do not do this place justice. Not even a little bit. 

Even there in-room snacks were adorable.
All the yummiest and cutest things.
And tea cups, of course there were teacups.
And fresh ground coffee in the most adorable little jar.
If we were coffee drinkers I am sure we would have loved this extra little detail. 

The bathroom had cement floors.
You have no idea how much I adore cement floors.
It was like these rooms were designed with me in mind.

A fresh sprig of lavender tucked ever so neatly into the folds of our toilet paper. Charming!
And we got lavender toiletries.
Even the water glasses and jars with q-tips and cotton balls were adorable.
I wanted to take them home with me.
And an embroidered fabric bag to house the hair dryer. Naturally.
Oh, and they had a little shop.
It was called the farm shop.
It was filled with all sorts of lavender goods, and cooking things, and little pretties imported from france.
I could have dropped a lot of money in there.
It was a good thing we saved this till the last day and imposed a spending limit of whatever we had leftover from our trip budget in cash.
And then we spent some time at the little barn.
Visiting with the animals and basking in the gloriousness of such a place.
It is also where I discovered that a 1-month old goat is approximately the same size as a small chicken.
I almost died and wanted to take this wee goat home with us that very instant. 
 

 
 this is also where ryan tangled a calf.
Is that what they call it when you throw the rope over their heads? 
I wouldn't know, but he was pretty dang good at it, whatever it is called.
 
 
 
Have I mentioned the peacocks?
They were seen sauntering across the bocce court in the morning.
Walking the roof tops in the afternoons.
Sleeping high up in the trees at night.
Casually passing by outside the windows as we ate breakfast.
Bliss I tell you, bliss!

On our last night we ordered take out and ate in next to the roaring fire that we stoked using dried lavender fire starters. Our entire room smelled like lavender. We ate on the sofa wearing the complementary robes and basking in the warm glow of the roaring fire and our own contentment.
Have I mentioned that I love it here?
It felt like a destination in and of itself.
What with the farm tours, biking trails, restaurant, shop, pond, swimming pool, bocce, tennis, and badminton courts and outdoor fireplaces & patios galore.
I'd go back here without seeing anything else in New Mexico.
If I wasn't already married I'd plan my wedding events around this very place.
I want to host family reunions and corporate retreats here.
I'd go here for girls trips, romantic getaways, or even just all by myself to get away and think.
I miss it already.



3.20.2012

Stuff we did in New Mexico


Our wedding date was strategically chosen to coincide with spring break and nothing else.
No birthdays, holidays, or celebrations anywhere in sight.
I would highly recommend this to all nearlyweds - plan a wedding date that's without competing celebrations!
When we got married we were busy enough with full-time work, school, student counsel, the busiest church calling of my life, and planning the wedding sans parents nearby.
We knew we were doing ourselves a huge favor then, but nearly six years later we are still thanking our lucky stars for that well-timed wedding date.
Who knew by know we'd still be in school?
And that our anniversary would delightfully correlate with spring break every year?
So we've been lucky enough to celebrate uninterrupted year after year.
A celebration that always includes a trip and two stipulations.
1. We go alone, just the two of us.
2. It's always to somewhere we have never been and doing something we have never done.
Past years have seen us staycationing in our home town and training to San Francisco.
(If we had better train systems here in the U.S. taking a train would be our third anniversary trip stipulation for sure.)
This year it was a road trip to New Mexico.
It was awesome!
We did lots of stuff, which I will prove to all of you with tons of pictures.



We...

1. Stood in 4 states simultaneously and picnicked in Arizona.
(New Mexico, Colorado, Arizona, & Utah)
Ryan attacked the 4 states spread eagle style.
Contrastingly, I ran in circles through them singing "I'm traveling the country."
We were lucky to visit in the slow season so no one was watching us enact these kinds of shenanigans.
Picnic supplies gathered in Moab en route - BBQ chicken, coleslaw, potato salad, and peas.
We ate out of plastic lids.
Ryan is standing in Colorado & New Mexico, I am standing in Utah & Arizona behind.

2. Visited Farmers Markets

3. Explored and shopped in Old Town(s)


4. Investigated old churches & cathedrals




5. Stood atop the Rio Grande Gorge Bridge

Ryan has a real thing for bridges, and this one is the fifth highest bridge in the U.S. 
8 seconds down according to the rocks we threw over the side.




6. Hiked in, around, and through Bandelier National Park
this place was amazing.
don't you wish they offered sleep-overs? 
I kept telling Ryan how much I wanted to stay the night and pretend that we lived here.
 Awesomely narrow stairs leading all around these ruins.

7. Biked along the Rio Grande upon cruisers
I let Ryan ride both our bikes across the narrow bridges.
I'm nice like that.
The bike chain gave us a little trouble, but the bikes were free (courtesy of our delightful inn) so we didn't complain.
A tree lined lane lead up to the inn.

8. Traversed the Sandia Mountains on the worlds 3rd longest aerial tramway
The view of Albuquerque as we rode up
A well-timed sunset on the way down.

Six years was looking pretty good from New Mexico.
That kind of makes it sound like it doesn't look good now, from Utah. But it does.
It looks good from pretty much everywhere, because I love this guy.
This was just a nice way to savor the fact. 



Still to come: what we ate & where we stayed.